(........ See my post just above regarding the solenoid ground............ )About the add-on relay...you don't need a big one. It just has to supply enough current to actuate the solenoid coil.A little "ice cube" type will do ( but so will dozens of others }It has be be for 6V and normally open type. For example see ebay 173173517546......hook 85 to the starter button and 86 to ground ( or you can reverse these two if you want )......hook 30 to a source of 6V and 87 goes to #2 on the solenoid....87a is not used......with this set up...when you push the starter button...it turns on the relay and closes the contacts and this in turns puts 6V on #2 terminal and this activates the solenoid and the solenoid actuates the starter.